How Can I Make Mornings Easier with a Baby or Toddler?
Morning Chaos is Normal - But You Can Shift the Mood
Those early hours with a baby or toddler can feel like a flurry of spilled snacks, outfit changes, and missing shoes. Whether you’re rushing out the door or just trying to get a peaceful start to the day, a few thoughtful changes can bring calm to the chaos. Here’s how to make mornings smoother - and maybe even a little joyful.
Prep Ahead to Lighten the Load
Getting organized the night before can make mornings run more smoothly. Try this:
- Set out clothes: Include socks and a backup set - just in case.
- Restock the diaper bag: Pack diapers, wipes, pacifier, snacks - everything ready to go.
- Pre-make bottles: BIBS baby bottles make early feeds faster and more familiar.
- Prep breakfast items: Set out dishes, utensils, and bibs to cut down on scrambling.
Stick to a Simple Morning Routine
Predictability helps toddlers feel secure. A short, clear sequence each morning gives them structure. Try something like:
- Gentle wake-up and cuddle
- Diaper change or bathroom, then get dressed
- Eat breakfast
- Brush teeth or wipe face
- Pack up and head out
If your toddler is more independent, use pictures or charts to guide them through the routine. Visual cues reduce battles and boost confidence.
Keep the Vibe Calm and Fun
- Play music: A happy playlist helps everyone get into the groove.
- Offer choices: Let your toddler pick between two outfits or snacks. It gives them agency in a structured way.
- Bring comfort: A pacifier or cuddle item makes transitions easier. Check out our Sleep & Cuddle Collection.
- Use gentle countdowns: Say, “Five more minutes,” to help them prepare for what’s next.
Helpful Morning Gear
- Pacifier clips - Avoid the 7AM scavenger hunt
- Pacifier case - Keep backups clean and handy
- Gift sets - Thoughtfully bundled tools for easier mornings
When It Doesn’t Go As Planned
Some mornings just don’t work out - and that’s okay. If everything goes sideways:
- Pause and reset: Take a deep breath. Even 30 seconds of connection can calm the moment.
- Let go of perfect: Cereal in the car counts. So do pajama drop-offs.
- Celebrate the little things: If you got out the door at all, that’s worth a cheer.
FAQs
What’s a healthy wake-up time for toddlers?
Most toddlers do well waking between 6:30 and 7:30 AM, especially with a consistent bedtime around 7:30 PM.
How do I juggle more than one child in the morning?
Try staggering wake-up times, prepping breakfast items in advance, and giving older kids small jobs. Include your toddler in the routine so they feel involved.
Start the Day With Intention
Mornings with little ones will always come with surprises. But a blend of preparation, flexibility, and warmth can help your family begin the day with less stress and more connection. And when all else fails? Turn up the music and dance through it - you’re doing great.
